Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. (Dr. Seuss)
Here is what I have posted on my fridge to help me remember:You are not totally, completely, irrevocably responsible for everyone. That's my job, Love God.
I need your fridge. Seriously, not just for what is on it, but for what I am pretty sure for what is in it, too.